While working on my fourteen-mile run yesterday I was able to take in all the beautiful Christmas decorations near the beach, and of course had lots of time to think about the quickly approaching holiday. Last year Jimmy and I stayed in Jacksonville for Christmas. This wasn’t easy on us, or our families, but the trade off the rest of the year is definitely worth it. I’ve said this to friends and family before, but I think it is important and worth sharing. My long distance relationship with my family has made our relationships the best they have ever been.

Some people may take this in a humorous way, but I am actually being quite serious. I do miss the family get-togethers, birthday parties, and of course Christmas, but what I get in return is so much more. I have many phone conversations with my dad that I would never consider having if I lived just fifteen minutes down the road. I get lots of Disney trips with my mom that would never be possible if I didn’t live just a few hours from the park. I value every FaceTime, phone call, and visit with mine and Jimmy’s family, more so than I ever would if I thought I could see them regularly. I love that when I do see family it’s a vacation and everyone has so much joy and love to share.

I think we take for granted those we love when we have them close. I don’t think we do this intentionally, but we usually don’t take time to work on those important relationships. I catch myself doing that with Jimmy. We had a long distance relationship for two and a half years. The three Christmas seasons we were apart I remember singing along to “All I want for Christmas is You” and meaning it with all my heart. Now there are days I show more irritation than he deserves and forget to feel blessed that he is around. Every time I hear that song I remember how badly I wanted him in my life and take time to enjoy the moments we have together.

One of the biggest blessings in my life has been moving to Florida, not just because I love it more than I can describe, but also because it has brought me closer to the ones I love. I hope whether your family is near or far you take the time to remember how valuable their relationships are.

Until next time,

Kaycee

P.S. My favorite song today is Christmas In The Sand by Colbie Caillat